What is EMDR?
The brain can be viewed as a filing cabinet where each memory is organized under tabs of related themes, such as, "I succeeded, I failed, I embarrassed myself, or I am loved."
However, when a memory is distressing or doesn't match how we want to see ourselves, such as feeling incompetent, helpless, or cruel, it occasionally fails to find its proper location in the system. Instead, it remains like an unresolved pile of paperwork on top of your desk, persistently nagging due to its unresolved nature.
When this lingering issue is triggered, we find ourselves stuck in themes of, "I'm not good enough, I am alone, or I do not trust my judgement," and we react with emotional outbursts or strong anxiety that feels unavoidable.
EMDR can be utilized with these unsettled concerns, aiding the brain's natural healing process by effectively processing and organizing these unresolved memories. Once the source of distress has been alleviated, our behaviors decrease in reactivity for current and future stressors and we are able to live healthier, happier lives.